How to Stop Overthinking Every Decision
- outofsmallthingsli
- Mar 19
- 3 min read
We’ve all been there: standing at the crossroads, paralyzed by the endless possibilities. Whether it’s picking out a new outfit, deciding on a weekend activity, or tackling a major work project, overthinking can sneak in and turn a simple choice into a mental maze.
If you’re someone who tends to analyze every detail, afraid of making the wrong choice, you’re not alone. For busy women—especially those who are juggling responsibilities for everyone else—decision-making can feel like the weight of the world is on your shoulders. And when you’re constantly second-guessing yourself, it’s easy to slip into burnout or, worse, avoid making decisions altogether.
But here’s the good news: you don’t have to tackle everything at once. Start small by incorporating one of these strategies at a time, and before you know it, you’ll be making confident decisions with less mental clutter. Here’s how:
1. Trust Yourself, Even When You’re Uncertain
It’s tempting to wait until every detail is perfectly lined up before making a decision. But perfectionism, in all its glory, doesn’t serve you here. The truth? You don’t need to know everything before you make a move. Trust that you have the tools to handle whatever comes your way, even if things don’t go according to plan.
2. Simplify Your Options
The more options you have, the harder it is to make a decision. Overthinking often happens when we feel overwhelmed by too many possibilities. Narrowing down your options to a manageable few can make all the difference. Whether it’s choosing between two options or deciding on a concrete timeframe, limit your choices and take the pressure off.
3. Give Yourself a Time Limit
If you’re prone to overthinking, setting a timer can be a game-changer. Give yourself just 5, 10, or 15 minutes to make a decision. That pressure to act can get you out of analysis paralysis and push you to trust your gut. Once the timer goes off, commit to your decision—no second-guessing allowed!
4. Focus on Your Core Values
When you feel stuck in overthinking, get clear on what truly matters. Ask yourself, “What’s most important to me in this situation?” Tuning into your values helps you cut through the noise and make clearer, more confident decisions.
(Not sure what your core values are? Don’t worry—that’s a skill you can strengthen.)
5. Let Go of the "Perfect" Decision
Overthinking thrives when you’re striving for perfection. But here’s the secret: there’s no such thing as a perfect decision. Instead of asking, "What’s the best possible choice?" try asking, "What’s a good enough decision?" Perfection doesn’t exist, but a decision made with intention and clarity can still move you forward.
6. Practice Self-Compassion
Finally, be kind to yourself. Overthinking often stems from a fear of making mistakes or facing criticism. Remind yourself that you’re allowed to make mistakes—they don’t define you. Embrace imperfection and treat yourself with the same kindness and understanding you would offer a close friend.
Take the Next Step
Overthinking doesn’t need to hold you back. By trusting yourself, simplifying your choices, and letting go of perfectionism, you’ll be able to move forward with confidence—without spinning your wheels for hours. The more you practice, the easier decision-making becomes, and the less mental overload you’ll experience.
If you’re ready to stop overthinking and take action with more confidence, I’d love to help you clear that mental clutter. Schedule a free conversation with me today, and let’s talk about how you can make clear, decisive choices without the mental overload.
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